Saturday, July 16, 2011

The Simple Ways to Have Many Friends

As humans, the presence of friends or best friend have important meaning in life. Undeniably, every man needs a friend. Friends and best friend have a role as a place of sharing, discussion, asking for consideration in making decisions, sharing happiness and sadness.

For most people, you might be one of them, not easy to get new friends. In fact, sometimes they wonder why anyone could be so easy to make friends? Even, while waiting for their turn into the doctor's office, for example, suddenly you realize your friends are already talking with everyone in the waiting room. They even call each other names and chatting as if with old friends.

If you are one of the many people who struggle to have a new friend, here are tips from Laura Gilbert, a freelance writer in several media such as Maxim, Health, The Knot, and Stuff, saying, there are some things that make people easy to make friends with a new person encountered.

A smile and wave
There is nothing wrong and do not need prestige to flashes a smile and waving your hand when people are passing you. You need not be afraid to give the message that you want to chat with him, or want to know who she is. Smile, wave, nod your head, anything that gives you a friendly impression.
You should try to give you a smile when meeting an unknown person, a smile would also let her know that he can converse with you. Try to give a smile and wave to everyone you meet, this will be a new habit that occurs naturally.

Start a conversation
At first, you will be confused how to start a conversation. Use a simple way to see the surroundings, such as: "Hello, you look elegant with the clothes you wear." Successful human has many friends, is the man who dared start a conversation.
According to Susan RoAne, author of How to Create Your Own Luck and What Do I Say Next, the secret of those who make friends easily is to consider the things around it as an opportunity to start talking, and instead of waiting greeted.
When starting a conversation, do not make the "task" as a burden. Stay Be yourself. "You have to be comfortable while doing so. If you have to think what to say, you'll hesitate, and that moment will be gone," says RoAne.

Use open questions
After you successfully start a conversation, the next step is to ask questions that may provoke the other person to give a long answer, not just short answers like "yes" or not "
According to Dale Carnegie, every human being must be more interested about themselves than anything else in this world. Ask open-ended questions that can provoke them to more talk about themselves.

Stop talking in due time
Basically every human being has an ego to speak more than his interlocutor. Begin to change this view, "good speakers are good listeners," it was presented by Dale Carnegie. So, you have to know when to stop and give that person the opportunity to speak. Do not forget, everyone would love to be considered to have extensive knowledge.

These tips will work, if you want to change your perspective about human relationships. Next time you have the opportunity to open a new chat with someone who you know, accusing at least three questions and tips mentioned above. It will provide a gap for others to be open to you, and feel valued. When they feel valued, they will definitely try to talk more with you.

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18 komentar:

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